Sex-negativity is the mentality that basically asserts that sex is wrong. Have you ever heard someone call another person who has slept with a lot of people, “dirty?” That is sex-negativity. Have you ever heard someone say that non-monogamy is “gross” or “immoral?”...
There are many things that people like to talk about throughout their relationship with their partners, and this may not be one of the first ones you think of. However, if it crops up in your mind as the one you'd like to bring about in conversation, let's talk about...
It is clearly the case that the vast majority of relationships fail. This can easily be said because most relationships end in a break-up. When you enter into a relationship, for the most part, this sort of ending is the last thing you hope for or expect. And yet, the...
Sexual dysfunctions, sadly, are a commonality. Nearly everybody, whether you are a man or a woman, has experienced some form of sexual dysfunction throughout their life. Whether if it is low libido, erectile dysfunction, a diminishment of genital sensation, anorgasmia...
Sex addiction and polyamorous relationships are two different things, and while this question crops up often in the world of polyamory, poly relationships are not a cover for sex addiction. Or at least, they shouldn’t be. If you’re in a relationship and finding that...
If you're in an open relationship, you know the questions that come about when you're talking to new people in the open relationship scene. They have a bevy of them that come with the world view that everyone is supposed to be monogamous and that being in an open...
Threesomes really ain’t hard. But I have repeatedly heard of that one failed threesome story where, the experience left such a bad taste in the couple’s mouth, they never engaged in another threesome again. It always surprises me when this happens because I think...
Because it’s getting popular to become polyamorous, many people are trying it out as a new thing. On one hand, I appreciate the exploration because I think it’s worth discovering the type of love life that works best for you. On the other hand, so many people do...
Getting into a relationship and/or getting sexually intimate with someone is one of the most vulnerable things you can do. It requires vulnerability in ways that aren’t very obvious. On the one hand, you need to be vulnerable to yourself, your emotions, and your own...
When you are in a relationship for long enough, things tend to become old hat when you let them. This is not excluding sex. Sex after awhile might become repetitious and boring. You might even feel that it is becoming a sort of chore. This is something that isn’t only...